More and more men are discovering the pleasures of pegging- being anally penetrated with a strap-on by their female lovers. Pegging opens whole new worlds of pleasure for couples. Men get to experience their entire sexual system, enjoying the sensation of the high concentration of nerve endings in the anus and the stimulation of the prostate gland. Women are thrilled at the opportunity to penetrate their men, finding new pleasures in being ‘on top’. Many women also report that men become better lovers after trying pegging, as they have a new understanding of what it feels like to be penetrated and take more care when it is their turn to penetrate their female partners.

But if you want to try pegging, you have to first learn anal massage. Starting with a strap-on toy, no matter how slender, will be way too much for most men. Start with your fingers- get familiar with anal stimulation and begin relaxing the anal sphincters with the gentle stimulation of anal massage. By learning manual prostate massage, you will be moving towards highly pleasurable pegging sex – and avoiding painful experiences that may turn you off of this new sexual experience.

The best way to learn the skills of anal massage is online video- in the privacy of your own home you and your partner can explore anal stimulation and enjoy all of the new stimulation and sensations of anal play. Once you are both comfortable with using your fingers to stimulate the anus and prostate, you may be ready for pegging, full penetration with a strap-on toy. Plus, your new anal massage skills will help you warm-up for pegging for many years to come, getting his body ready for the full and delicious pleasures of pegging.

“Pegging” is the term coined by sex columnist Dan Savage for what is quickly becoming the new favorite of many heterosexual men: anal stimulation and penetration. Straight men are discovering the incredible sexual pleasures available with anal play, and their female partners often delight in offering this new experience

The Village Voice included an article on anal play for straight men in their latest edition. This article, however, focuses on strap-on play, full on penetration with a strap-on dildo. While many couples find this wildly pleasurable, it is best to start exploring anal stimulation using fingers- the dexterity and sensitivity of the fingers can’t be matched by any toy. Prostate massage is done best with fingers, and can be combined with cock massage or oral sex for an incredible sexual experience.

Couples can learn the skills of prostate massage with online flash video. After enjoying all of the pleasures of anal stimulation and prostate massage, some couples may want to enjoy strap-on penetration as well- but many will find fingers to be just right to add a whole new dimension to their sexual play.

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